By: Marilyn L. Davis
What Can You Possibly Get Done Before Coffee??
I know a lot of people who evaluate their progress at the end of the day. That’s all well and good, but what if you started your day with a ‘Done List’?
You’re probably scratching your head, wondering what you could do before coffee. Here’s what I did before I left the bedroom:
1. Said thank you for getting up
2. Prayed for those in my God Box
3. Made my bed
4. Read the morning meditation
5. Petted Jackson, my cat
6. Sorted two loads of laundry from the hamper
7. Grabbed the laundry
8. Turned off the light
Then I went to the kitchen. Now those eight things may seem trivial to you, but I got all of them done.
Don’t Just Watch the Coffee Brew
“So what do we do? Anything. Something. So long as we just don’t sit there. If we screw it up, start over. Try something else. If we wait until we’ve satisfied all the uncertainties, it may be too late.” —Lee Iacocca
Doing those eight things allowed me to feel productive, which I didn’t feel in my addiction. I was so unproductive in my addiction that one time, I referred to myself as a slug – just sitting and nodding out.
So, feeling productive, I put the coffee in the filter and hit brew. No need to stare and wonder if it’s going to work. That laundry? Into the washer. And that’s something I don’t have to watch, either. The machines know what to do.
While coffee is brewing, I’ll check the phone for messages. Yep, three. Granddaughter, business, and an old friend. I can reply to all of them in five minutes, texts to set up times to talk – another three tasks accomplished.
Savor the Moment
The coffee is almost made, so I check Jackson’s food and give him more. He’s a happy kitty when he’s got food and lets me have a few uninterrupted minutes. If I forget to get his food, well, he lets me know that I’m not done – by sitting on the keyboard.
Coffee ready, so cup in hand, I sit down at the computer to check emails for From Addict 2 Advocate and Two Drops of Ink. But before the emails, I take a moment to look outside the window and check the bird feeders. There’s something about seeing the birds fed or the blue sky or the flowers blooming in the yard that’s soothing.
So, I’ve fed Jackson, the birds still have about three days worth of seed and nuts, and I can feel energized to ‘start my day.’
As the editor-in-chief at the two sites, there’s always a new submission to read or edit, stats to check, quotes that are pertinent to the post, or images to find.
Sometimes those tasks don’t feel as productive as time-consuming without necessarily resulting in a published post. When I reduce my ‘to-do’ list to ‘publishing,’ I don’t feel like I’ve done much.
But the reality is I found a great quote, edited a post, found the ‘absolutely-best-image-possible’ for the post, and got it into the draft.
Plus, I wrote the writer and communicated; I needed a shorter bio.
Missions accomplished – even without publishing.
The Done List
When we complete tasks, regardless of how big or small, it’s more productive than we were in our use.
Having a sense of accomplishment is essential. I think this is probably more true for us addicts. While we can't make up time that we squandered in our use, we can make better use of our time today. Click To Tweet
Record What You’ve Done
Try writing down all the things you accomplished in a day, and you might surprise yourself.
Janet Choi is the Chief Creative Officer at IDoneThis. Her simple philosophy reinforces what works for me. “The simple act of pausing to reflect and acknowledge your efforts provides valuable boosts of motivation, focus, and insight that would otherwise be lost amidst your busy day. Your done list acts as a signpost, a manifestation of all that day’s hard work”.
Here are four questions to ask yourself:
1. What tasks did I finish today?
2. How did I feel when I was productive?
3. Did I use my time wisely?
4. Can I make some of these tasks part of my daily routine?
How Do I Feel When I’m Done?
Beyond finishing the tasks, we’ve also got to understand that progress is an accomplishment, too. Rather than criticize for not publishing, I can still feel productive that I’m three-quarters of the way through getting this post ready to publish.
That feels good.
It also means that I’ve only got to finish a quarter of the work, either tonight after my group or in the morning after my routine tasks.
When I know what’s done, what had to wait – either due to time constraints or another person’s input, what’s waiting on me, like that load of clothes in the washing machine, or something comes up that I didn’t foresee, I still can feel productive, less stressed, and know I’ve made progress.
Progress, Productivity, and the Myth of Perfection
I’ll take a saying from the rooms, “progress, not perfection.” Progress towards any task, goal, or work is something that we need to acknowledge. We’ve done it.
Are you giving yourself credit when it’s done? I certainly hope so.
And the things you didn’t get finished? Well, you made headway, or another word for progress – they will be there tomorrow to start your day with doing and done.
Guest Bloggers Wanted
Although we have many slogans that we all use, how we talk or write about recovery is unique, depending on perspective, style, tone, and voice.
Your words, encouragement, and experiences can help someone who is struggling with their addiction.
Consider a guest post today to help someone. Now that’s being productive!
Marilyn L. Davis is the Editor-in-Chief at FromAddict2Advocate.com and TwoDropsofInk.com. She is also the author of Finding North: A Journey from Addict to Advocate and Memories into Memoir: The Mindsets and Mechanics Workbook, available at Amazon, Barnes and Noble, Indie Books, and Books a Million.
Writing and recovery heal the heart.