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Thanksgiving: Terrific for Some; Triggers for Others marilyn l davis from addict 2 advocate

Posted on November 24, 2021November 30, 2021

by: Marilyn L. Davis Guess Who’s Coming for Dinner? Trigger Alert <a class="read-more" href="https://fromaddict2advocate.com/thanksgiving-terrific-for-some-triggers-for-others/">Read more</a><div style="margin-top: 0px; margin-bottom: 0px;" class="sharethis-inline-share-buttons" data-url=https://fromaddict2advocate.com/thanksgiving-terrific-for-some-triggers-for-others/></div>

Thanksgiving: Terrific for Some; Triggers for Others

Bridging The Gap: Improving Treatment Outcomes With Effective Family Engagement from addict 2 advocate

Posted on October 15, 2021

By Jim Savage, LCDC Family Challenges in Treatment I’ve <a class="read-more" href="https://fromaddict2advocate.com/bridging-the-gap-improving-treatment-outcomes-with-effective-family-engagement/">Read more</a><div style="margin-top: 0px; margin-bottom: 0px;" class="sharethis-inline-share-buttons" data-url=https://fromaddict2advocate.com/bridging-the-gap-improving-treatment-outcomes-with-effective-family-engagement/></div>

Bridging The Gap: Improving Treatment Outcomes With Effective Family Engagement

Positive Affirmations: Touch the Heart - Change the Mind

Posted on May 22, 2021January 15, 2022

“Affirmations are our mental vitamins, providing the supplementary positive thoughts we need to balance the barrage of negative events and thoughts we experience daily.”― Tia Walker, The Inspired Caregiver: Finding Joy While Caring for Those You Love <div style="margin-top: 0px; margin-bottom: 0px;" class="sharethis-inline-share-buttons" data-url=https://fromaddict2advocate.com/positive-affirmations-change-the-mind-change-the-perception/></div>

Positive Affirmations: Change the Mind, Change the Perception

Posted on April 1, 2021November 10, 2021

Relationships could be like the Kintsukuroi, where gold is used to repair damaged pottery and is considered more valuable with its brokenness but that doesn't always happen in families. <div style="margin-top: 0px; margin-bottom: 0px;" class="sharethis-inline-share-buttons" data-url=https://fromaddict2advocate.com/recovery-is-repairing-each-relationship/></div>

Recovery is Repairing Each Relationship

Posted on June 30, 2020June 10, 2021

Guilt motivates some people to change; they feel bad about their behaviors and they want these feelings to stop, so they change, and make amends. Shame, however, often paralyzes people. Their distorted opinion of themselves leads them to believe that no one could forgive them for their actions; they think they are so worthless and undeserving of absolution that they often do not try to make amends.<div style="margin-top: 0px; margin-bottom: 0px;" class="sharethis-inline-share-buttons" data-url=https://fromaddict2advocate.com/dealing-with-guilt-in-your-recovery/></div>

Dealing with Guilt in Your Recovery

Are Associations Preventing You from Hearing the Message? marilyn l davis from addict 2 advocate

Posted on March 12, 2020September 15, 2021

To break down associations, identify who the person reminds you of; then make a conscious effort to not filter the message by the association or past connection. <div style="margin-top: 0px; margin-bottom: 0px;" class="sharethis-inline-share-buttons" data-url=https://fromaddict2advocate.com/are-associations-preventing-you-from-hearing-the-message/></div>

Are Associations Preventing You from Hearing the Message?

Changes Give Us Hope for a Better Future marilyn l davis from addict 2 advocate

Posted on January 18, 2020May 5, 2020

For many addicts and alcoholics coming to terms with the puzzle of addiction – knowing they need to change and doing the complete opposite is frustrating and scary. However, the good news is that the barriers and objections are within you and that means you have the ability to change them. It's just a matter of isolating them, examining them and then changing what doesn't work or fit anymore.<div style="margin-top: 0px; margin-bottom: 0px;" class="sharethis-inline-share-buttons" data-url=https://fromaddict2advocate.com/changes-give-us-hope-for-a-better-future/></div>

Changes Give Us Hope for a Better Future

17 Spiritual Principles That Changed My Life marilyn l davis from addict 2 advocate

Posted on January 13, 2020January 12, 2022

In one of my first lectures in treatment, I kept hearing about the spiritual principles that I needed to incorporate into my recovery. For the principles listing on the sign-up sheet, I falsely assumed that I'd go to a dimly lit room, with incense wafting and cloistered monks reading from musty, dusty tomes. I hoped that they would enlighten me and give me ancient wisdom on how to change. Instead, I learned from recovering people like myself in recovery support meetings. <div style="margin-top: 0px; margin-bottom: 0px;" class="sharethis-inline-share-buttons" data-url=https://fromaddict2advocate.com/17-spiritual-principles-that-will-change-your-life/></div>

17 Spiritual Principles That Will Change Your Life

Recovery Fears: Still Sitting on the Fence? marilyn l davis from addict 2 advocate

Posted on December 15, 2019October 20, 2021

You can decide which side of the fence you will land on because sitting on the fence in the case of addiction vs. recovery is risky. Maybe it's time to decide which side you want to be on - your addiction or your recovery– staying the same or overcoming your fear and changing? <div style="margin-top: 0px; margin-bottom: 0px;" class="sharethis-inline-share-buttons" data-url=https://fromaddict2advocate.com/recovery-fears-still-sitting-on-the-fence/></div>

Recovery Fears: Still Sitting on the Fence?

Recovery Means No More Fake Appearances marilyn l davis from addict 2 advocate

Posted on December 14, 2019October 26, 2021

Addiction forces us to present a fake appearance. We smile, when every fiber of our being is screaming in pain. We posture as friendly, when all we want to do is get our dope and leave. We pretend that we have it all together when we take our children to school or football. We show fake emotions because we are so embarrassed and frightened by our authentic ones. <div style="margin-top: 0px; margin-bottom: 0px;" class="sharethis-inline-share-buttons" data-url=https://fromaddict2advocate.com/recovery-means-no-more-fake-appearances/></div>

Recovery Means No More Fake Appearances

Posted on December 4, 2019August 17, 2020

Children growing up with an alcoholic or addicted parent experience increased stress. They live in the shadows, never taking center stage; their parent's addiction comes first. <div style="margin-top: 0px; margin-bottom: 0px;" class="sharethis-inline-share-buttons" data-url=https://fromaddict2advocate.com/absent-parenting-creative-communication-with-children/></div>

Absent Parenting: Creative Communication with Children

Posted on October 28, 2019January 2, 2022

When people have clarity, there is no question that using drugs and alcohol are self-defeating. However, when we are in the grips of our addiction, we do not see reality. Many of us require a caring intervention by others to understand just how much harm we have inflicted, the damage to our relationships, and to know that there are still people willing to help.<div style="margin-top: 0px; margin-bottom: 0px;" class="sharethis-inline-share-buttons" data-url=https://fromaddict2advocate.com/because-we-cannot-see-when-addicts-need-an-intervention/></div>

Because We Cannot See: When Addicts Need an Intervention

Posted on October 26, 2019February 13, 2020

If you think about this logically, anyone that “falls in love” with you early in your recovery is getting involved with a person that you are trying to change. Therefore, you would have to stay the same to sustain the relationship, and that would be the exact opposite of what you are trying to accomplish in yo<div style="margin-top: 0px; margin-bottom: 0px;" class="sharethis-inline-share-buttons" data-url=https://fromaddict2advocate.com/if-they-love-you-now-why-change/></div>

If They Love You Now, Why Change?

Meeting Options to Improve Long-term Recovery from addict 2 advocate marilyn l davis

Posted on September 23, 2019March 15, 2020

One aspect of joining these groups and attending meetings is that if the orientation, value, and support are what you need to shore up your foundation in recovery, most have a free course or instructional format for starting a meeting in your area.<div style="margin-top: 0px; margin-bottom: 0px;" class="sharethis-inline-share-buttons" data-url=https://fromaddict2advocate.com/meeting-options-to-improve-long-term-recovery/></div>

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Thanksgiving: Terrific for Some; Triggers for Others

Bridging The Gap: Improving Treatment Outcomes With Effective Family Engagement

Positive Affirmations: Change the Mind, Change the Perception

Recovery is Repairing Each Relationship

Dealing with Guilt in Your Recovery

Are Associations Preventing You from Hearing the Message?

Changes Give Us Hope for a Better Future

17 Spiritual Principles That Will Change Your Life

Recovery Fears: Still Sitting on the Fence?

Recovery Means No More Fake Appearances

Absent Parenting: Creative Communication with Children

Because We Cannot See: When Addicts Need an Intervention

If They Love You Now, Why Change?

Meeting Options to Improve Long-term Recovery

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